Chastity contract

Being aligned in your expectations of each other during the contract period and having clear communication procedures will drastically improve the experience for everyone involved.

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What should a contract include?

Now you have an idea of things to beware of, the fun can truly begin! The chastity contract should be based entirely around the desires of all parties and how to make these mutually beneficial. The possibilities are endless but you don’t have to itemise and record every fantasy you’ve ever had! A very long list can be hard to remember whereas contracts which are simple and clear can still cover a lot of ground.

I have included an example contract which demonstrates the principles discussed so far and which can be used as a starting point.

As mentioned earlier, keep in mind that there may be differences between professional keyholders and those in a personal relationship. Do not make any assumptions that a pro-dom will be happy to engage in any form of sexual activity and ensure you discuss boundaries clearly when drawing up a contract.

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Example contract

We encourage you to copy, paste and print the following chastity contract for yourself and your keyholder so that you can both sign and keep a copy.

This chastity contract is an agreement strictly between ____________________ (Keyholder) and _________________________ (User). This arrangement will commence immediately upon signing by both parties and will be implemented for a period of ______________ days. This contract will be enforced from ___________________(date) until __________________ (date). Failure to follow these rules will result in punishment or termination of the contract, as decided by Keyholder.
Definitions

Keyholder: Person who will be in charge of the keys to the user’s chastity device and who dominates the user by controlling their sexual function and release. Keyholder may also dominate the user in other ways agreed upon in this contract for the duration.